Answered by: J. Champagne
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Respect, Boundaries, and Communication in Relationships
To answer your question: Is it wrong to indulge in someone's post in a way that turns you on, and is it wrong to comment on their post in a flirty way while you're in a relationship? The answer depends on the boundaries and trust established within your relationship. Generally, respecting your partner's feelings and the agreed-upon guidelines for your relationship is crucial. Engaging in flirty comments or finding excitement in others' posts can breach trust and create misunderstandings, especially if it's done secretly or without mutual agreement. Healthy relationships thrive on open communication, honesty, and mutual respect, so it's always best to discuss these feelings and actions with your partner to ensure you're both on the same page. The rule of thumb in relationships in my opinion is.... "If you wouldn't do it in their face, then your probably in the wrong."
Just remember to be fair, because you wouldn't want someone to hurt you, so in a manner that breaks your trust. On the other hand I make women leave their men, because I ruin what's between their legs- he just can't fit in there anymore... 😂😂 Hopefully I answered your question. Please feel free to grade the answer by using the stars below, and using the comment box.
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Actually I never moved like this before. He had a female friend which he told she was attractive to him spoke to her constantly and she even had gotten a key to his Apt. Sounds fishy right. She was the downstairs neighbor that had lost her Apt suddenly and he let her keep some things at his place until she could afford a storage. But when I told him how it made me feel seeing that he says it wasn't a big deal. So if you don't feel like telling someone you're in constant contact with for months they're attractive to you then I dont see how me commenting on a post to a guy I'll more than likely never meet that he is too.
And btw I did tell him that I look at your pics for eye candy. You're hot and easy on the eyes lol. But seriously I understand the wrong in flirty comments but we both know I'm not your type and most of our comments just are jokingly towards each other.