Written by: J. Champagne & A. Lancaster 

What's brewing in the corners of your mind?

I've often wondered about the mindset of certain individuals- one of them being a 'rapist.' why do they rape? Why do they stalk, traumatize, demean, and sexually harrass? These violations of law and humanity. Rape culture needs a different point of view and I came to give you one... This may be taboo to some people, but I've never cared what others thought of me. I don't hide from what I want to know! I investigate, research, survey, and look closer. The truth is we're all interconnected more then you know. Trust me, there's something dark brewing even inside of you...

The truth is, having that deep dark scary side just makes you human. Monsters never looked like what we seen on t.v. anyways... They look just like you and me.

We all have those crazy ass  thoughts, that are harmful or hurtful towards others. We all have those days when we feel angry and our hatred is aimed toward the people we love the most. We all feel jealous, self-centred and envious from time to time. We all do shit that we regret and feel embarrassed and ashamed of.

Not acknowledging the dark shadows that lerk in parts of your mind, is actually more risky than letting yourself see what’s there... But the truth is most of you know what's lerking there don't you??? You may not say it out loud-but you know it's there! For those who refuse to see what's there- your in danger...

Why? Because when you deny the truth of what you think and feel, these emotions and beliefs usually find a way of expressing themselves. Those lacking an outlet of expression, are the reasons rapist, robbers, and murders exist!

Understanding Our Dark Side: A Psychological Perspective

We all have a dark side, a bad side! Psychology has defined this as the "shadow self," a term popularized by Carl Jung. The shadow self represents the parts of our personality that we suppress or deny, often because they don't align with societal norms or our ideal self-image. (Which I don't really give two fucks about societal norms. There has been nothing that shows me that society itself is normal.. who the fuck can dictate what's normal for you anyway?)

While it may sound negative, acknowledging this aspect can actually lead to personal growth. By facing our hidden fears, insecurities, or impulses, we gain deeper self-awareness and the opportunity to integrate these traits in healthy and constructive ways. Instead of fearing that sexy dark side, embracing and understanding it can make us more balanced, empathetic, and authentic individuals.. or cold harder criminals... Either way it's worth exploring.

I'm not ashamed to say I know my dark side very well... I know my "it" factor! What I mean by it factor is- I know what it would take for me to bend the law, break the law, or do things that are considered a crime against humanity. For example: I know what would make me rob, kill and rape....

I know what would bring me outside of myself and let the dark side completely take me over. How do I know this? I've thought, and put myself in the mind of every type of monster you can possibly imagine; and I've found out what it would take to morph me into one. I'm less dangerous to the world because I've done this. It's called self awareness and self exploration... You only fear what you don't understand, not what you know. I haven't been afraid of the dark since I was 5 yrs old.... Are you still afraid of the dark?

Understanding the Psychological Perspectives on Sexual Violence

The psychology of sexual violence, including acts like rape, is a complex and heavily studied area. Research in 2025 continues to highlight that such behavior stems not from a single cause, but rather from a combination of psychological, social, and environmental factors. Studies suggest that rape is often driven by a desire for power, control, or dominance, rather than purely sexual gratification. Psychological theories, such as those examining antisocial behavior, toxic masculinity, or impaired empathy, also shed light on why some individuals justify these actions.

These justifications can come from distorted thinking patterns, wherein perpetrators may dehumanize victims, minimize harm, or convince themselves their actions are acceptable due to societal influences or personal traumas. Importantly, ongoing research emphasizes that such actions are never "okay" or justifiable, and understanding these psychological factors is crucial for prevention and intervention efforts.

I believe phycologist have in part figured it out... But I personal believe that somewhere in the dark mind there was a shift or a break! The disconnect from your human side, which allowed you to transform into the monster that lurked in the dark.. ( angel and the demon battle) something created this shift of simply not giving a fuck anymore! I believe this shift could happen to any of us.

None of us are excluded-but I believe things like this are less likely to happen, if people explore their dark side instead of letting it brew without an outlet. These people with These shifts or breaks, happened because they found no outlet for their inner desires, fetishes, or temptations. There was nothing keeping them within a boundary line. When there's nothing taming a beast, he will find a way to get free... To find his release...

This is How I know all men have the rape-it-gene. My personal experience aided in my research... One day, I was watching a movie and a scene popped up that was a rape scene, and as I was watching this- I felt heat between my legs and growth. By time the scene ended I was in full blown arousal. I kept thinking to myself "what the fuck!"

I went in and out of feeling embarrassed about it, to feeling like a straight weirdo! At some point I analyzed it until I figured out why it turned me on. It turned me on because I'm into BDSM and s&m fetish, and then there was the fact that they where naked, and it was sexual, so it was normal to find arousal in sexual activity. It didn't make me want to go out and rape somebody because a movie scene got my dick hard-But this did give me understanding that even I must have a suppressed 'rape-it-gene.'

The difference is I have things in my life that keep me morally bound. Such as I have a daughter, I have beliefs, standards, and a moral system. These things keep my dark side within a fence. I am controlled! My good side is always stronger then my dark side. We have to make sure not to over feed one or the other, because they co-exist together. Any and every man and woman has the 'rape-it-gene!'

that's not an argument, I'm not taking it back, I said what I said, and I meant what I said. There's not one man who can tell me they've never experienced an erection from watching a rape scene in a movie. If you haven't then let's direct the attention to the reasons you watch hardcore or rough porn?? Or any mix or consistency of things with bondage and hardcore attached to it....

The things we're into, tells you more about your dark side then you know. Our outlets are now what they call "fetishes" which are all created from rape fantasy and pedophilia.. we can excuse them in any way we want. scientist and phycologist can say I'm wrong, but you have no proof or evidence to conclude that I'm wrong. I can argue anything you throw at me, when it comes to this topic. 

##What Is a Fetish?

A fetish, in its simplest terms, is a strong fixation or attraction to a specific object, body part, activity, or concept that enhances sexual excitement or desire. This attraction can vary widely among individuals and is often highly personal. While some fetishes are centered around physical items or features, like shoes or feet, others may focus on certain behaviors, scenarios, or even sensory experiences, such as textures or sounds. It's important to note that having a fetish is considered a natural variation of human sexuality and, when consensual and safe, it can be a healthy part of adult expression. Understanding and open communication about fetishes can encourage deeper connection and trust in relationships.

This was the simple break down of what a fetish is. As I was saying our fetishes are literally connected to rape and pedophilia! They just created legal consentual ways for us to explore them and have an outlet. If it was so normal why are these fetishes still taboo? Just take this as one example: the The teacher & student roleplay!  What's the purpose? Far as I know the student as always been a child or young teenager.

So what's the point of adults role playing this? One of you have to digress in age.. so no one is going to convince me that I don't know what I'm talking about. One thing about me is- I understand the mind, and I'm aware of self. I suggest everyone become self aware, and date themselves. Which I'm referring you to a link below on the topic of dating yourself. It will help you truly get to know who you are.

Understanding the Influence of Social Media on Rape Culture

To conclude my thoughts on the mindset of rapists, I believe we have all, in some way, contributed to the perpetuation of rape culture through social media. The comments we leave on people's posts, the normalization of objectifying content, and the overwhelming presence of imagery featuring half-naked men and women all play a role.

When we follow such accounts and engage with this content—whether through likes, shares, or swooning over appearances—we inadvertently reinforce harmful societal norms. It's crucial to reflect on how our online behaviors, no matter how small they seem, can collectively shape cultural attitudes and perpetuate dangerous ideologies.

By fostering more mindful and respectful interactions online, we can begin to challenge and dismantle the aspects of rape culture that are perpetuated in digital spaces. But this is something like everything else that must be a choice. I'm not even ready to take that step. For those that are I'm proud of you. Well I'm done with this topic for now. It's after midnight and I'm sleepy. I can't wait to see what you guys think about this topic.

Disclaimer and Open Dialogue

Disclaimer: I hope that no one was offended by my conversation and thoughts on the topic of rape culture. It is a sensitive and deeply important subject, and my intention is not to harm or hurt anyone but to open a dialogue. That said, I stand by what I expressed and will not be retracting my statements. I encourage constructive discussions and welcome your feedback—feel free to leave your comments below, and I will address any concerns you may have. Additionally, I invite you to use the star rating feature to grade this blog post. Your input is invaluable and helps foster understanding and growth in these important conversations. If you have time check out the pelicot rape case below and tell me what you think of that story.

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